My Hair Needs HELP!!!

I love my hair and sometimes am confused what exactly to do with it. I love when it is process and looking nice and next time I want it to be natural. I love both, but I realise of lately that I have just stop processing my hair for the pass 2 months, the root is natural and am planning on wearing extention or wig to allow to come back naturall.

I love long hair and I want my hair to be naturally long, black and bounce. What products can i use have tried so many, but they seem to take forever to work. so what recommendation are out there email me and let me know.